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Week 4 Reflections


This week, I really enjoyed working on my core values. I think we all have core values, but rarely do we sit down and think about what they are and how they affect our lives. It was a good exercise for me to think about my core values and define them for me. I think having your core values defined help you know how to direct your life. It can help me choose a career path. My core values kind of narrow the career paths I feel would be acceptable, but in a way that is a good thing. It is helping to direct my focus as to what I should do in my life. One of my core values that really directs me is being family-focused. I am still working on figuring out how to stay family focused and have a career. I am sure that in time it will start to come together for me.
I also enjoyed listing my fears. Well, maybe enjoy isn’t the right word for it. But, the process of facing my fears was a good thing to do. It showed me that as I actually take the time to address my fears, there is usually solution for them. My mom and I always kind of talk about starting a little business, but I have a lot of fears that come when I think about it. I used the fears that I think about in the exercise and was able to come up with solutions and ways to help prevent those things. I also was able to realize that some of the fears that I hold are just in my head and about me. I need to realize that I can do more than I think I can and work on that.
Overall, this week helped me to start focusing on potential career paths for me. I also will use the fear exercise for other aspects of my life. It helped me a lot to realize that if I list my fears and then come up with solutions for them, my fears no longer seem quite as daunting.

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